Just got to know that the senior person who left the company without any information deleted a lot of important data from the systems as well as from the server. Very shocking indeed. After three days, his trial got over and he decided to move on after causing as much damage as he could.
Most of us today want everything on trial, services for trial, products for trial, company information for trial in bidding, jobs for trial, interviews for trial and relationships for trial.
‘Try’ is actually dangerous territory. It implies that one can fail, one can give up. Its OK. ‘Koshish toh ki thi’. We tried. And that is supposed to close it all.
We took this job for trial. Trial for what? Then, actually we are still giving interviews. Then we will take the best. But what about being the best employee, the best team member? What about giving one’s best?
So the best part in one’s life goes in this ‘trial’ business, hopping from one job to the other since one is not actually looking for a career. A career is a different ballgame altogether. Hopping from one relationship to the other. But I guess one realizes it only when one’s entire life has only become a ‘trial’ in living. ‘Jeene ki koshish’. Good title for a hindi movie.
And this ‘trial’ business’ in relationships. ‘dekh lete hai’. Let us live together and see. There is no commitment to make it work. That is the bottomline. Always have the exit route ready. Out of jobs, out of relationships, out of commitments, out of responsibilities, out of accountability, out of consequences.
100% commitment is scary. ‘phasne wali baat hai’.
Unfortunately that is the only way anything works. whether it is a career or relationship or life. Unless one is ready to give 100%, it doesn’t go anywhere. All the efforts remain a scalar quantity with no direction.
Really looking for ‘vectors’. People with ‘content’ and ‘direction’.
